Best way to touch his anus

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Anal sex is low-key very high maintenance. In theory, all you have to do is put a penis or object into someone's anus — but that doesn't always go smoothly, literally and figuratively. Foreplay is extra important, if not mandatory, when you're having anal sex, because you have to get the anus ready for penetration.

The prostate gland is in the middle of the pelvis and produces part of the fluid called seminal fluid that comes out when a man ejaculates. You can't touch the prostate directly, but it is possible to stimulate it indirectly, internally via anal stimulation and externally by applying pressure on the perineum. Not all people with prostates enjoy having it stimulated. Like the g-spot , or any other part of the body, some people will find stimulation arousing , some will find it boring, some may find it painful. But for many, the prostate is a source of deep sexual pleasure.

First, a problem of nomenclature. Be sure you know which term your man prefers, which will likely provoke many giggles on both ends. It's like using the word "penis" or "vagina" in bed. You might not know it, but even Wikipedia agrees that the taint is a highly erogenous area. It's got plenty of nerves running through it for both men and women which is why women often get a raw deal when they tear in childbirth.

Everyone has their own sexual desires — but not everyone likes to talk about them, feeling ashamed or embarrassed, worried that they may be judged. But in reality, loads of us share the same sexual desires. One sexual desire, for many men, is for a finger to be inserted into the anus. When the prostate is stimulated, it can give a man incredible amounts of pleasure.