By Tracey Cox for MailOnline. It happens more often than we like to think. Scroll down for video. Tracey Cox says that our libido can drop from time to time however you should be concerned if you haven't wanted sex with your partner for over a year. Temporary lack of desire means you normally love sex but are just going through an off period. Tracey says that a lack of sex drive may be down to the fact that your partner is disappointing in bed or simply because you are no longer attracted to them.
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Life happens, which means dry spells happen, am I right? No biggie—unless that dry spell morphs into more of a, well, severe drought. Can't remember the last time you wanted to have sex with your husband or partner? Factors like stress, time, and kids can seriously zap your sex drive. That said, you shouldn't just give up on your sex life forever. These stories encompass some of the most common reasons why women lose their sex drives. We did it a lot in the beginning, like six times a week.
I married as a virgin and had an active sex life in the early years, usually initiated by him. I decide where we live, how to manage our finances and where to go on holiday. He has always been kind when not asking for sex , generous and responsible. How do I get my sexual life back to normal?
It's a story that I'm sure is familiar to many of you: girl meets boy, girl and boy fall in love and have lots of crazy sex, girl and boy get married, have two children It's sad but true for so many of us. Life takes over, kids take over and, by the end of the day, you've got nothing left. Because there's no mystery anymore and total familiarity, any shred of desire you once had goes "poof! I'm not OK with this.