Skip navigation! Story from Sex. The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying. Having a few go-to tips in your back pocket will make oral sex speed along for those times when you feel like you've been under water for hours.
Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better. Mix it all up by bringing your sex life into new and unexpected places. If your mouth and hands are tired they do a lot of work all day, we get it! Not all porn is created equal, and there are tons of ethical, very chill options out there for those who are so inclined to enjoy. Find a flick you both like, maybe watch for some new moves or tips, and then get to it while the people onscreen are getting to it behind you.
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. The way most people talk about oral sex , it sounds pretty simple. You either lick someone's vulva or suck their penis and that's all there is to it. But once you really start giving head , no matter what body part you're going down on, you discover that there's so much more to it than licking and sucking.